‘Will you marry me and also help me choose an engagement ring?’ The rise and rise of the ‘quiet proposal’

The way we propose has evolved, with Gen Z favoring quiet, intimate moments over grand or obvious gestures. These "quiet proposals" often involve sharing a decision together without fanfare, such as whispering or choosing a ring designed by the couple. A survey shows that nearly half of engagement shoppers do this with their partner today. While it may seem less flashy, this trend reflects a growing emphasis on equality and personal connection in relationships. After all, a private proposal can be just as meaningful as a big reveal—especially when it’s shared equally between two people.