I’m smitten, but I am worried that my boyfriend’s dysfunctional family will impact our relationship

The author has been dating her boyfriend for a year and feels deeply connected to him but is concerned about how his childhood influences his personality and relationship with his family. She desires more time with her family while balancing this with spending quality time with her boyfriend, whom she values highly. Additionally, she expresses worries about their future together, especially regarding parenting styles and whether they can support each other as parents, suggesting that discussing these aspects through therapy might be beneficial for both.