I am a trans teenager. This is what it means to hate the shape of your own skin | Elsie Thwaites

theguardian.comPublished: 6/7/2025

Summary

The article explores how societal norms about modesty have deeply affected the author’s self-image and sense of self-worth. Early signs, like wearing a shirt while swimming or playing video games as a child, reveal internalized fears and a struggle to embrace their true identity. Over time, these habits have evolved into a complex mix of pride, regret, and fear, leaving the author feeling trapped in their own mind and unable to fully connect with themselves.