Dear James: When My Husband Speaks, My Brain Turns to Mush

Engaged and attentive? Not anymore—sometimes your spouse can take over the conversation in a way that leaves you drowsy. James Parker asks if your husband talks at length, if his tendency to ramble is increasing, and suggests he might benefit from trimming his rambles or self-editing. He also advises considering whether your own attention span could be contributing to the issue, as you've already heard so much of what he's about to say. Maybe it’s time to talk—or get professional help.